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Bhanvi Alugh's avatar

Wow! Thanks for letting me know the name of what I had experienced so much already. I'm glad to share that I had been applying the tricks you listed out above in my own way. Most of the times its not about us the other person is thinking or feeling. It's us who make everything about us. Quote is apt!

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Praneet  Singh Butran's avatar

Wow, amazing stuff about the spotlight effect! I needed this exact perspective 🙏

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